My Story
In late 2023, my life as I knew it ended. Thomas, my beloved partner in life and work died suddenly on a September morning. It was a complete shock to the system. I have too many and somehow not enough words to describe that kind of devastating loss at a time when life was just getting good.
Suffice to say, who I was disappeared that day. Someone new emerged from that, and it’s taken nearly three years to meet her. Thomas was my grounding force. When I lost him, I lost a best friend, a mentor, and a mirror. I was stripped down to the studs, losing the lifetime of masking and coping skills that were keeping me in lockstep with an extremely demanding career. My previously undiagnosed AuDHD could no longer be ignored.
I was starting over in every sense. With this came a spiritual awakening I didn’t expect. I had repeated experiences that could only be described as supernatural, and it changed my entire worldview.
As I got more in tune with the science of energetics, I began to understand that I’ve actually been spiritually connected my whole life. Memories of experiences I’d filed under ‘weird’ were strikingly similar to these experiences. The more in tune I became with my own energy and its sheer power, the more clarity I had about my life overall. I dove deep into crystal work, the chakra system, and the concept of manifestation. I was determined to own my healing path, not wanting to outsource too much. Frankly, the grief was so deep that I couldn’t imagine verbalizing it on someone else’s timetable.
I realized that for my entire adult life up to that point, I’d been running from myself. Using work, and alcohol, and drugs to distract me from me. I knew that I couldn’t go back to being her, so I had to finally choose to become me.
I became comfortable with taking up space, speaking my truth. No longer afraid to pursue a life of authenticity and alignment, I dove deeper into my spirituality and emerged a full blown witch. I’ve been practicing for nearly three years now, and it’s the greatest gift from the hardest loss.
After some work harnessing my intuitive skills and developing my craft, I noticed that the downloads would come without any effort. As I accepted the ease of this, even more gifts arrived. My clair senses are well-developed, allowing me to receive information through several channels.
You could call me a reluctant reader. My “day job” is as the ceo of a skincare company called MILO that I co-founded with my best friend. My spiritual practice was initially intended to be my own, allowing me to access new dimensions in service of my own growth and that of our Human Care mission.
But never one to ignore signs from the universe, I kept receiving messages that I should be using my intuitive abilities to help others on their own healing journeys. My specific ability in working with others is that I can intuitively sense specifics of the deep wounds we all carry around. Some of us know they’re there and choose to ignore them. Others aren’t aware of what’s bubbling under the surface, but have a sense of dis-ease about their current life path. They live with a vague sense that something isn’t quite right, with no idea how to identify the issue let alone fix it.
That’s where I come in. If you’ve given me permission to tap into your energy, it doesn’t take long to narrow into where the dis-ease is coming from. But that’s not the hard part. What comes next is what takes the most effort and this is where my passion for self-empowerment comes in. It’s easy to have someone tell you what’s wrong. It’s much harder to really hear it. To look at it with love and acceptance, and to recognize that the path to happiness is the same as the path to authenticity. That’s the scary part—accepting that you’re off your true path and having the willingness to pursue alignment at all costs can be very expensive.
Relationships that never served you will have no choice but to fall away. That job you kinda hated will become the bane of your existence. Things that you found ways to tolerate will become intolerable. People who thought they had you figured out will be baffled. People who came to rely on their version of you will be upset when you realize their version isn’t really you. This is work that no one can do for you.
No Etsy spell can do for you what self-leadership can. My calling is to work alongside you. To facilitate the uncovering of your own truths and to be a witness as you build out your own spiritual universe.
xxL